KUALA LUMPUR: Lack of parental love and care, the allure of better living conditions, peer pressure, and romantic relationships—particularly those involving boyfriends are among reasons children run away from home, say experts.
Child rights activist and former Human Rights Commission of Malaysia commissioner Dr James Nayagam said these issues often contributed to the cases.
Home Minister Datuk Seri Saifuddin Nasution Ismail recently revealed that an average of two children are reported missing each day, totaling 3,847 cases since 2020.
He noted that 74 percent of these missing children are female, with 54 percent aged 13 to 15.
While 96 out of every 100 missing children are located by police, many of these cases involve children who have voluntarily run away.
Dr Nayagam said that children often run away from home under the influence of friends or romantic partners, sometimes acting out of spite to defy parental control.
To tackle these issues, he said there was a need for improved education and counseling for children, as well as better reporting mechanisms for such cases.
He also highlighted the importance of awareness campaigns to help families and communities recognise the risks and signs of potential disappearances, noting that these campaigns are infrequent and often lack impact.
Support systems like educational roadshows for parents and children, parent support groups, and prompt community action are essential for families facing conflicts that might lead a child to run away, he added.
Social activist Tan Sri Lee Lam Thye echoed these concerns, stating that the trend of young teenagers leaving home is a significant social problem often rooted in parental absence. He stressed that parental guidance is crucial, as children without supervision may associate with negative peers who encourage them to run away.
"If you are under 18, you are still under parental control. Parents must set a good example, as children view them as role models," the Alliance of Safety Community chairman said.
"When children misbehave, it's important not to over-punish them. Instead, focus on creating a harmonious home environment by spending quality time with your children and showing love and care."
He added that the most effective way to address the issue of children running away is for parents to confront the problem directly and lead by example.
Lee also proposed community initiatives, such as seminars and camps, to instil positive values in children and address the issue collectively.
Ultimately, parents must prioritise love and attention at home to ensure their children feel secure and supported, reducing the likelihood of them feeling the need to run away, he said.