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Struggles and triumphs of two single mums

KUALA LUMPUR: As the world celebrates Mothers Day, amid the bouquets and laughter of families coming together, let us not forget mothers who work tirelessly for the best of their children after the sudden loss of their partners.

One such person is Intan Suhaila Mustafa, a remarkable woman whose journey embodies the essence of maternal devotion and sacrifice.

The 50-year-old mother of four children said her life took an unexpected turn in 2015, when she lost her husband, leaving her to single-handedly raise their children. Two of her sons are autistic and require specialised care and attention.

With a newfound resolve, Intan embarked on a journey marked by challenges and triumphs, determined to provide her children with a future filled with hope and opportunity.

Reminiscing about her previous role in the household, she acknowledges the shift in responsibilities since her husband's passing.

"Before my husband's death nine years ago, I would sometimes cook for my family and do household chores with our children whenever I was free.

"But now, all the chores and cooking fall onto my maid's shoulder, while I focus on supporting the family.

"Losing my husband has indeed left me heartbroken, but my children come first and I want the best for them," she told the New Sunday Times.

Intan is grateful to her maid, Tona, for her help in caring for the children.

"I work in a competitive field, where I am a project manager of an oil and gas company."

Despite her hectic schedule, Intan's unwavering focus are her children's wellbeing.

"There are trials and tribulations that accompany motherhood. These challenges will come, and we will be tested. Always have faith in God."

Single mother of five, Norzalinda Mohamed Razali, 50, picked up her life after her husband's passing by embarking on a paste cooking business in July last year.

"I joined a cooking class to expand my cooking paste business. There are returning customers although they are mostly my family members and friends.

"I also have my children helping me with my business as I never get enough hand to meet the demand right now!" She told the NST.

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